Meet Travis Douglas | Male Breast Cancer Warrior
This October, in honor of Breast Cancer Awareness Month, we continue our blog series with the story of Travis Douglas, a resilient Wolfpack member navigating life with a breast cancer diagnosis. Through his own words, Travis shares his journey, the challenges he’s faced, and his sources of strength along the way.
1. Breast cancer is often associated with women. How did you first react when you were diagnosed, and how has this perception impacted your journey as a man with breast cancer?
When I was initially diagnosed with breast cancer, I was completely taken aback. My understanding of breast cancer was that if it runs in your family, you have a higher chance of being diagnosed. However, I must admit that this experience has positively impacted me. Through conversations with others, I've discovered that some people were just as shocked as I was upon hearing my news, and they expressed interest in learning more.
2. Can you describe your experience with accessing healthcare and support as a male breast cancer patient? Were there any specific challenges you faced due to the perception that breast cancer is primarily a women’s issue?
Working alongside healthcare providers and professionals has been a positive experience for me. Everything seemed to unfold rapidly—from my diagnosis to surgery and chemotherapy. Throughout this journey, the doctors kept me well informed. They encouraged my questions and listened to my concerns, which made me feel very at ease.
3. How did you share the news of your diagnosis with your loved ones, and how did they respond, knowing that breast cancer in men is less commonly talked about?
I shared the news with my friends and family, starting by informing them that I had discovered a lump in my breast and went for testing, which confirmed it was cancer. Their initial reaction was one of shock, followed by a collective sigh of sadness. However, I made it clear that I didn’t want them to feel sorrow or pity for me. Instead, I encouraged them to keep me in their prayers and to trust and believe together with me in my healing. I believe that moment shifted their perspective on my diagnosis.
4. What advice would you give to other men who may feel hesitant to talk about their health or seek help for something they don’t think affects men, like breast cancer?
I want to emphasize to men that there is immense strength in the community. It’s easy to feel isolated during tough times, but it’s a trick of the enemy to make you believe you’re alone. Seek out someone or a group you can trust to share your feelings. I’ve joined several Facebook groups. Typically, one person will step up to support me through this journey, which has been incredibly helpful.
5. How has Man Up to Cancer supported you during this time? Can you share how the community or resources from MUTC have helped you through your journey?
To be honest, I am quite a reserved Man Up to Cancer group member. I’ve only made one post, so not many people likely know my story. However, when I did share, I found the members to be very encouraging. I can sense their willingness to help in any way possible. I am grateful for this group as it provides me with a safe space to express myself, where others truly understand. It also motivates me to keep moving forward on my journey.